Jonathan Allison Photography
Let’s take a second to pat yourselves on the back. You’ve booked a venue, solidified a date, asked your wedding party to be your bridesmaids and groomsmen, chosen your photographer, taken engagement pictures, and now you’re about to send out your save the date! That’s a whole lot of things you’ve already crossed off your wedding checklist, congratulations. You are getting it done!
So today on the blog we want to share everything you need to know about sending you SAVE THE DATE cards. Are you ready?!
When to send your save the date?
Most etiquette blogs will say to send your save the dates around 6 months. We urge you to do it anywhere between 6-8 months to allow time for your out of guest relatives to begin their planning. Plus, it will drive a lot of traffic to your wedding website and allow for you to capture some data you may need during your own planning process. For example, transportation needs, hotel blocks, scheduling and more.
If you’re planning a more local wedding, you can get away with a 4-6 month wedding timeline instead of the 6-8 month’s that destination weddings or weddings that require travel will need.
Haley McMackin Photography
Ashtyn Nicole Photography
What do I include on my save the date?
This is where things get tricky. You want to keep in mind that this is purely meant to have your guests put your wedding date on their calendar. Your invitation will include all of the food, venue, and RSVP information, so there is no need to include that on your save the dates. Here is what you need to include and what you can leave out:
Things to include:
You and your fiancé’s first and last name’s
Wedding Date
City and State
Wedding Website – while not necessary, highly desirable
“Formal Invitation to Follow” – let your guest’s know that this isn’t the end of the road for information
Optional (but highly recommended) – Your favorite picture from your engagement shoot
Things to not include:
RSVP Card – you don’t need to know a headcount or dietary restrictions quite yet
Venue – this might not be solidified quite yet, so it’s best to leave it out
Southwest Creative Co.
Who should I send my save the dates to?
Anyone that you want to invite to the wedding, you should send a save the date. Some couples will have a “backup” list in case you want to fill spots when certain people can’t attend. Our advice? Create a guest list and stick to it. It’s more cost efficient to have fewer guests rather than have an A and a B list. That being said, we recommend that you only send your save the date’s to your A list and be mentally prepared with B’s not being able to attend if you invite them later on.
How to address your save the dates?
Addressing your save the date will be the first opportunity to solidify if the guest is allowed to bring a plus one or not. Here are some examples to consider as you’re addressing your envelopes:
Single Guest – Use Mr., Ms., Miss, Mrs. as necessary:
Miss Jane Smith
636 W. University Drive
Mesa, Az 85201
Guest with a Plus One – Add “and guest” to the format of the original guest invited:
Miss Jane Smith and Guest
636 W. University Drive
Mesa, Az 85201
Unmarried Couple – Both first and last names should be used as well as “Mr.” or “Ms.”:
Mr. John Doe and Ms. Jane Smith
636 W. University Drive
Mesa, Az 85201
Married Couple – Mr. and Mrs. First and Last Name of the husband:
Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
636 W. University Drive
Mesa, Az 85201
Married Couple with Kids – Similar to the married couple format, except you add an extra line, underneath the parents, with their children’s first names:
Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
Jack and Jill
636 W. University Drive
Mesa, Az 85201
Fully Alive Photography
Jared Platt
Should I send an Evite, Postcard or Traditional Mailer?
Depending on your wedding style, there are a lot of options of formats to send to your guests! Evites offer an inexpensive, beautiful, but a less formal route to tell your guests about your wedding. Also, keep in mind the evites can get lost in spam folders of many guest email, especially if you don’t regularly email them.
Postcards are a fun and unique way to announce your date, especially for destination weddings. Keep in mind you save on cost of envelopes but it’s the same amount to mail a postcard as a it is a traditional card with envelope that can protect your card.
Traditional save the dates are timeless and cherished but can be extremely pricey if you go with a elaborate design. Keep it simple!
Devon Stoebe Photography
Happy Planning:
XOXO
Ashtyn Nicole Photography
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